As a parent, I’m entitled to not only personal revelation, but any revelation I want or need to help me with those I’m a steward over. In short, as the head of the household I’m entitled to personal revelation for my family. Likewise, as the head of the Ward family, the Bishop is entitled to revelation for the ward.
The Friday before I was due to move to Cougar, I received the most interesting voice mail. It went on about how Bishop Heath (my new Bishop) had instructed this person to get us in a closer park, to do it immediately, and to do whatever it took to get us there. When I called back, the High Priest Group Leader informed me what he already had paperwork for me and could come get me so I could see the place and fill out the paperwork and twenty minutes later I was on my way. The new park has laundry facilities on-site, is 5 miles from the highway/town, there are members within walking distance and it even comes with a pool. This guy and his wife even took me to the Cougar park to get my deposit back and everything.
As we’re driving up to Cougar he assures me that the new ward will love on me extra good and I proudly boast what big shoes they have to fill because my beloved 7th Ward is affectionately nick named 7th Heaven. He insists they are up to the challenge and he was right.
Since arriving in my new spot, I’ve been loved on very good. I’ve met so many people I can’t remember everyone (and I’m good with names and faces) and we’ve been very warmly received. We’ve attended church here almost a month now (well Miss Ella and I have anyway) and as difficult as it is for me to ask, each time we have a need and I’m willing to humble myself enough to ask, that need is always met.
Our place within the new RV park is prime real estate let me tell you. We only have neighbors on one side and we have the biggest yard (or pretty close to it) in the entire place. Oh and let’s not forget this view…
Gorgeous isn’t it? Go ahead be jealous…
Camp life is physically a lot harder than apartment/city living is. Having to dispose of the dirt you’ve acquired after digging out a fire pit is no joke. Building fires daily is also tougher than flipping the switch on the gas fireplace we had in our apartment. Additional chores include things like stacking wood, dumping gray and black water, doing dishes without using a sink, cooking over a fire pit with no grill, shaking out rugs and sweeping several times a day, and countless other things. We also have to do chores two or three times a day if we’d like to keep our spot looking spiffy. Then there’s going to the bathroom to shower and do hair and makeup…talk about a workout sometimes (uphill carrying all your stuff). Despite being physically harder, we lead a much simpler life and I have now heard every one of my kids say that this new way of living is not as bad as they thought it would be and they actually do like the simplicity of it.
We’ve survived our first major rain storm (though we do need to get our trailer tarped before the next major rains come), we’ve been able to endure the epic heat wave we’ve had lately in relative ease given we have a pool and AC in the trailer, we’ve met great people in and out of our Ward alike, we’ve started to put the most important things first finally, and ultimately, I think we’ve realized we can endure way more than we ever thought we could. Except if it’s mosquitoes…I’m not enduring those little suckers well at all.
While this particular circumstance is not how I’d prefer to live if it were up to me, it has been a learning experience already. I’ve learned that when a trial comes our way (and they will keep coming trust me), we can make it an obstacle or an opportunity by how we respond to it. I choose to allow this opportunity to make me better not bitter.